Bookmarked The respect of personhood vs the respect of authority (kottke.org)
Sometimes people use “respect” to mean “treating someone like a person” and sometimes they use “respect” to mean “treating someone like an authority” and sometimes people who are used to being treated like an authority say “if you won’t respect me I won’t respect you” and they mean “if you won’t treat me like an authority I won’t treat you like a person” and they think they’re being fair but they aren’t, and it’s not okay.

So my OH slipped & fell during lunch and hurt his hand. He thought it was nothing, but then it got swollen and tender, so he went to the hospital. The doctor told him he’s fractured his wrist and need to have a cast put on.
Don’t underestimate (what seems like) minor injuries.